Which way to go? This way

Choices build upon one another and finally you have a life — a series of choices but more. Making major life choices can be difficult, and they become even more difficult if you fret over choosing between one good thing and another good thing.

Frederick Buechner has some good words on this in his book of daily meditations, Listening to Your Life.

“But on the really crucial decisions of life — Do I love her enough to marry her? Is it worth dying for? Can I give my life to this? — when it comes to decisions like these, it is not just the pro-and-con-listing part of me or the coin-tossing and advice-seeking parts that are involved. It is all of me, heart, mind, will, and when the moment comes and I find myself moving out for good and all, one way or another, there is a kind of relentless spontaneity about it, a kind of terrific sense of conviction, so that if you are Matthew in the tax office, you lay down your slide rule and your pencil, do not even finish the form that you happened to be working on at the moment, but just push back your chair and start heading for the door without even bothering to pick up your coat hanging over by the water cooler. And then you step out of there forever without once looking back over your shoulder, and start following the way you have chosen: not that way over there or that way right here, but this way. Of all the ten million and one ways in the world, you choose this way. Or maybe it chooses you — to put it a better way. Or you choose each other, your way and you.” (p.255)

This surely has been consistent with my experience–choosing to marry Trese, choosing to move to New Orleans, choosing to move to Illinois, choosing to move back to Texas, choosing to take the job I now hold. The way and I (and Trese) seemed to choose each other.

Sometimes, however, I have forgotten this and wondered about the wisdom of a decision in hindsight. Buechner reminds me that is rediculous. The way and I are one.

One thought on “Which way to go? This way

  1. Love this. Thanks for posting. Applies to me right at this very moment which you very well know. Helps me not stress so much. 🙂 Love you!!!
    ~ Tabitha

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